A common problem of partners in long haul relationships is a decrease in sexual interest. Although the social choosing seems to be that guys are usually the partner complaining, research implies that long-lasting relationships may have a dampening impact on either partner – for reasons that aren’t entirely because of aging.
Within my make use of partners i’ve found that the resentment, impatience and criticism that partners reveal about numerous dilemmas within their life often protect the rejection and shame associated with the belief they are not any longer sexually desired. If they are finally in a position to treat it one hears opinions like:
- “She never ever makes an advance – we don’t need some body complying away from obligation”< Continue reading